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Aravani Girl Length: 53mins
Published: 22 Oct, 2009
In the ancient temple city of Madurai in South India, two brightly-coloured figures dance and giggle in the street. Sixteen year old Palani and Karthik are cross-dressing for the first time, wearing saris from their sister’s wardrobes. “I felt like a girl when I was seven years old”, says Karthik, “now I find there are many like me!” he cries, his eyes bright. “I don’t want to live a bad life”, says Palani, who’s had a first glimpse of the social exclusion that being an aravani means, “I worry about my future”.

The boys spend much time with the local aravani dance troupe, fascinated by their at once glamorous but marginalized world. “We adopt grandsons, granddaughters and children, and we live together”, says Dharma, one of the dancers. “What do you want to be, Palani, male or female?” “Female”, he says without blinking, but it’s not as easy as an answer. Like many boys before him, Palani is shunned by his family for visiting the aravanis. The decision may be taken from Karthik altogether: “If they arrange my marriage, I’ll marry”, he says sadly, “if not, I’ll be a ladyboy”.

“He talks like a woman, walks like a woman…”, says Palani’s mother, “the family tell me ‘stop him doing this”. “When I got a boyfriend they said ‘go away! Come back if you change!” says Palani. Forced to leave school to work and ostracized by his family, Palani hangs around the market with fellow aravanis. “After the operation we can wear a sari and be treated with respect”, says Viggy who plans to have a sex-change soon. As women, and as beautiful dancers, the aravanis are admired. At the village festival, the dance troupe’s saris light up the skies. Local men vie for the attention of the dancers and first-time dancers like Ryapan can, for a short while, feel accepted

“I would dance when nobody was looking”, says Stella, who is happily-married, “if you’re a ladyboy, you can’t change.” It’s a lesson every ladyboy must learn. “When I am reborn in the next life, I will be a girl and will marry your son”, Viggy wrote to his boyfriend’s mother, before hanging himself with his sister’s sari.

Now completely rejected by his family, Palani has turned to posing as a female prostitute to make a living. “Now I know how hard life is”, says Palani, on his way to yet another dangerous encounter. “I don’t want that life”, says Karthik, “I’m good at dancing”. A powerful story of the loss of innocence in a culture struggling to come to terms with homosexuality.

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